After giving
Timothy, Paul the apostle's young “son in the faith”,
instructions concerning “reading, exhortation and doctrine”,
Paul told him to “neglect not the gift” that was within
him, “meditate upon these things” and “take heed”
to himself because “in doing this” he would “both
save” himself, “and them that” heard him. As Paul
began with the first verse of what we know as the fifth chapter of
his letter to Timothy, Paul gave directives concerning specific
people within the church. He began with “elder” and
“younger men” where we read:
Rebuke not
an elder, but intreat him
as a father; and the
younger men as brethren;
The verse begins,
“Rebuke not an elder, but intreat him
as a father;” Paul
directed Timothy's attention toward men who were older in the church
as he wrote, “Rebuke” which
means “to strike upon, beat upon or to
chastise with words, to chide and upbraid” “not
an elder” or “man of age, the older of
two people, men more advanced in life, a senior man or forefather”
“but” which is the
disassociation conjunction that means what is about to be stated
takes priority over what was previously said, “intreat
him as” which means “call to one's side,
call for, summon, beg, beseech, encourage, comfort and strengthen”
“a father” or
“male ancestor and founder of a family”. Rather than “strike,
beat upon or chastise” men who were older than he, Timothy was to
“call them” to his side and seek to encourage and comfort them as
he would his own father.
The
verse continues, “and
the younger men as brethren;” Paul went on
to add, “and the younger men”
who were “those who were more recently born, youthful” and not as
old as Timothy “as brethren” or “brothers who were born to the
same parents”. These “younger men”
tended to be at or younger than Timothy, and
when he oversaw them as a pastor, he was to act towards them as
though they were his physical brothers.
While
we meditate upon Paul's words, let us allow ourselves to consider Pau
and inspirationally the “Holy Spirit's” concern over
relationships within the church. Often older people resent a younger
person giving them instructions and telling them what to do, so Paul
directed Timothy in how to manage them. Also, when young people have
someone who is the “overseer” within the church who is not much
older than they, they too resent being instructed by their comrade.
The wisdom in Paul's words transfers to us as well. We are much more
effective in the kingdom of God if we “intreat” older men,
and we also excel with “younger men” if we do not act
superior to them and treat them as equals. Let us allow the Lord to
show us at least two things in this verse: Relationships matter, and
there is a wise way to manage those relationships with elder and
younger men.
Next
time Paul shares about “elder” and “younger”
women , so read ahead, and we shall join together then.
Until
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