Young men likewise
exhort to be sober minded.
Youth
has its excitement and exuberance and yet unbridled and misdirected
it can lead to more destruction and devastation than a lifetime can
repay. Young men must be “exhorted” and Paul knows this.
The word “exhort” in the Greek is “parakaleo”
which means “to call to one's side, call for, summon”. It has the
idea of admonishing, begging, beseeching, and entreaty. It is meant
to encourage, strengthen, instruct, teach and comfort. It is more
than just yelling at a young man which may be the most relied upon
pattern for those who exhort young men. We notice that Paul is
exhorting Titus as he encourages him to engage these different
groups, and Paul will be with Titus as he employs these ideas.
The
first trait that Titus is to exhort young men toward is “to be
sober minded.” We have encountered this trait in our earlier
studies, and the importance of it is no less trivialized. Young men
should be instructed to be of sound minds, exercising self-control,
and to moderate themselves. They should curb their passions which
left to themselves cause all kinds of troubles. Those who have dealt
with teen aged boys know exactly of that which Paul refers. Both King
David and Solomon had much to write about young men. For example in
Psalm chapter one hundred nineteen and verse nine David wrote:
Wherewithal shall a
young man cleanse his way? by taking heed [thereto] according to your
word.
Solomon
followed with verses like this one found in Proverbs chapter thirteen
and verse one:
A wise son hears his
father's instruction: but a scorner hears not rebuke.
There
are many other examples of these exhortations in the Bible, but
suffice it to say that Godly exhortation is not only necessary but
essential for young men.
Perhaps
we have young men in our lives who need exhorting, and we are to be
the agents God uses to exhort them. We must remember the spirit of
this verse from Paul to Titus is to build the young man up rather
than tear him down. If we keep this idea in mind as we deal with him,
maybe we will have the patience to endure the challenge that is
certain to face us as we encounter the young men in our paths.
Next
time we will continue to look at exhortations that must be given by
Titus to young men, so read ahead, and we shall join together then.
Until
tomorrow...there is more...
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