Thursday, November 12, 2015

More Traits of Younger Widows 1 Timothy 5:13


As Paul the apostle continued to give Timothy instructions concerning women who were widows within the church of Ephesus, he told him how to discover a “widow indeed” and to “refuse younger women” who were widows because they would “bring damnation” upon themselves “for when they have begun to wax wanton against Christ, they will marry;”. In chapter five and verse thirteen of his letter to Timothy, Paul included more traits and tendencies of widows who were younger where we read:

And withal they learn to be idle, wandering about from house to house; and not only idle, but tattlers also and busybodies, speaking things which they ought not.

The verse begins, “And withal they learn to be idle, wandering about from house to house;” Paul begins this list of traits of younger widows with, “And withal” which means “at once, at the same time and together” “they learn” or “are apprised, increased in knowledge and informed” “to be idle” which means “free from labour, at leisure, lazy and shunning the labour which one ought to perform”. Paul added, “wandering about” or “going about, strolling, navigating and making the circuit” “from house to house” which refers to “the residences and places of abode of different people”. In other words, rather than being busy with activities of the family or of the church, these younger widows will have time on their hands and be so inactive that they will have a tendency to go from house to house as a “gadabout”.

The verse goes on to say, “and not only idle, but tattlers also and busybodies,” In addition to being “idle” and “wandering”, Paul repeats and adds to being idle when he wrote, “and not only idle” or “free from labor, at leisure, lazy and shunning the labor which one ought to perform” “but tattlers also” which means “persons uttering or doing silly things, garrulous, babbling, foolish, trifling and vain” “and busybodies” or “busy about trifles and neglectful of important matters, especially busy about other folks' affairs, impertinent and superfluous”. The younger widows would be prone to go about telling other folks business and flitting from station to station and person to person with the latest gossip and superfluous news.

Finally the verse says, “speaking things which they ought not.” As though the traits of being “idle, wandering, tattlers and busybodies” wasn't enough, Paul added, “speaking things which” or “talking about, uttering and using their tongues to tell” “they ought not” which means “unnecessary, not behoved and not needed”. In other words, the younger widows would tend to have so much idle time and activity they would be prone to go about saying things they should not be saying.

When we think through these words of Paul, we can understand why he took so much time with Timothy concerning “widows” within the church. “Wanderers”, “tattlers” and “busybodies” are not good for any church never mind if they are within a group such as “younger widows” who have time on their hands to promote such things. Because “idle” time becomes a stimulus for “laziness” and “gossip”, Paul warned Timothy to keep not only the church from such activities, but also “younger widows” from “damnation” for themselves. We might wonder how this relates to us, and an examination of ourselves would once again be proper at this point. Are we as these “younger widows” tend to be? Do we have “idle” time on our hands that leads to “wandering” from house to house or station to station just to “tattle”, be a “busybody” or “speaking things” we “ought not”? If we find ourselves guilty in any of these areas, let us go before our Savior Jesus and allow Him to cleanse all these wicked ways from our lives just as Paul desired Timothy do for the church.

Next time Paul shares what younger women are to do, so read ahead, and we shall join together then.

Until tomorrow…there is more…

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