Monday, August 21, 2017

Husbands Loving Their Wives as Themselves Ephesians 5:28


Paul the apostle gave the example of Jesus' “love” for His bride, the church, to demonstrate how “husbands” are to “love” their “wives”. Jesus seeks to “sanctify and cleanse” the church“with the washing of water by the word”. He does that so “He might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing”. He desired for His bride to be “holy and without blemish”, and in chapter five and verse twenty-eight of his letter, Paul directed “men to love their wives as their own bodies”. We read:

So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies.
He that loves his wife loves himself.

The verse begins, “So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies.” Paul began with the words, “So ought men” which means “in this manner men should owe and be in debt to the goodwill due” “to love” which is the Greek word “agapao” which means “welcome, entertain, be fond of, be pleased with, contended and love unconditionally” “their wives” which refers to “women who are betrothed or married” “as their own” which means “that which pertains to oneself” “bodies” or “physical flesh”. In the same manner that “men” “love” their “own bodies”, they are to “love their wives”.

The verse goes on to say, “He that loves his wife loves himself.” Paul continued, “He that loves” or “the husband that welcome, entertain, be fond of, be pleased with, contended and love unconditionally” “his wife” which refers to “a woman who is betrothed or married” “loves himself” or “welcomes, entertains, is fond of, is pleased with, contends and loves unconditionally” His own self. When a “husband loves” His “wife”, he puts himself in a position of the most effective personal “love”.

When we think through these words of Paul, we see his desire for men to “love” their “wives”. Jesus is our example, and as Jesus gave Himself for His bride, the church, “husbands” “owe and are in debt to to “love” their “wives” as well. Paul notes that the “husband” who obeys his command, “loves himself” in a manner that is not managed otherwise. Let all “husbands” take heed, and be in obedience to “loving their wives”, and in so doing, will “love” themselves as well.

Next time Paul shares how “nourish and cherish” their own bodies “even as the Lord the church”, so read ahead, and we shall join together then.

Until tomorrow…there is more…

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